Why do people make such a big issue out of the size of the penis? For people, who do not put much emphasis on penis size, it is hard to understand the big obsession about the penis. For a lot of men, the size of their penis seems to be the most important issue in the world. And no matter what anyone says about their size, they are still not happy and want a larger penis. This is especially the case with younger guys, who believe that size is everything. But how much importance does size really have in the real world and what place does penis enlargement have in the picture?
The people who say that size matters are wrong most of the times, and people who say that size does not matter, are wrong some of the times. Sometimes penis size matters and sometimes it doesn`t. Every person is unique with their own personal experiences and tastes. Some women do not put any emphasis on penis size, while others are “size queens” and for them, the size of the penis is very important. The women that think it is important to have a big penis, are in the minority.
If you want to really know if size matters to women, then you need to pay attention to the surveys and known what the average size is. A survey about penis size of 556 women, from the ages of 19-49 asked the participants whether the length and girth of the penis really mattered. And the results were that 18% said penis length was indeed very important, 57% said penis length was somewhat important, 25% said penis length was not important and 22% said penis girth was very important.
One of the major problems with this specific survey, was that the it did not specify an optimal size. What is big for some, might not be big for others. If you ask women to give a guess about the size of your penis, then you will get very inconsistent results. Lets say that your penis is 6 inches in length and 5 inches in girth. Some women might think your penis is 5×4 inches, while others think your penis is 7×6 inches.
But an even more important question is, does size matter to men? Men have a preoccupation with penis size and they worry about their sexual abilities and size much more than women. Another interesting survey found out that 85% of women are happy about the size of their partners penis, while only 55% the men, were satisfied with the size of their penis. Men very often underestimate the size of their manhood and think it is below average, when in fact it is average or even very large. Men tend to compare their penises in a way that is likely to end up with more negative evaluation. You can not compare a flaccid penis length to a erect penis length.
These surveys tell people, that men tend to put far more emphasis on the penis, that is really necessary. The size of the penis does not really matter that much, as much as men think. Every man wants to stick out from the rest and be in a relationship with a really sexy woman. Men are competitive and naturally compare themselves to each other. And since penis size is important for most men, then it is often compared as well. And since there always seems to be guys, who have a bigger penis than you do, then obviously you would like to make your penis bigger.
If a woman sees another woman in a very pretty dress, then she wants to have a dress just like that, because she also wants to look attractive. So wanting to have a bigger penis is normal and you should not get psychiatric help, if you want a bigger penis. If you feel that you could be a better lover and a more confident person with a bigger penis, then don`t be afraid to make it bigger. Who cares what anyone else really thinks.