Why It Makes Sense To RESOLVE Personal Obstacles?

If, you hope, to be, the best, you can become, and live the happiest, most – fulfilled, life, possible, you must commit, to performing, on a somewhat – regular basis, a check – up, from the neck – up, and considering every obstacle, as a challenge to overcome, rather, than, as a problem! Doesn’t it, make sense, to, proactively, RESOLVE these obstacles, in a way, which best – suits, your needs, priorities, goals, perceptions, life – style, and best interests? After, over four decades, of personal involvement, in creating, and presenting, hundreds of, self – help, and personal development, seminars, I strongly, believe, addressing these things, rather than procrastinating, denying, etc, is essential, to personal, self – help, etc. With, that in mind, this article will attempt to, briefly, consider, examine, review, and discuss, using the mnemonic approach, what this means and represents, and why it matters.

1. Responsive; relevant; reactions; realistic; reasoning/ rationale: Unless/ until, your approach, is responsive to your personal needs, etc, in a truly, relevant manner, how will you help, yourself? Consider your reactions, in a realistic way, and closely, examine and consider, your personal reasoning, and your rationale, for proceeding, as you do!

2. Efforts; emphasis; esteem: Why do you, place your emphasis, as you do? Are your personal efforts, at a level/ quality, which helps, and serves your overall, best interests, consistently? When was the last time, you considered, and examined, the level of your self – esteem?

3. Solutions; system; strengths/ stronger; sustainable; self – help; self – interest: Instead of fears, and negativity, we need to proactively, seek viable solutions, to any perceived, obstacle, in a well – considered, timely manner! Each of us, benefits, when we live our lives, in a personally, customized, system, which addresses, our priorities, etc! Consider your personal strengths, and weaknesses, and use every strength, to become stronger, while, addressing areas of weakness! Look at the bigger – picture, so your approach, is, as sustainable, as possible, and aim, to maximize your self – help, and maximizing your self – interests, proactively, and productively!

4. Options; opportunities; open – mind; optimize: Consider a variety of viable options, with an open – mind! How might you, optimize your opportunities, and be, as prepared, as possible?

5. Listen; learn; lessons: Wise people effectively, listen, and learn, from every conversation, and experience, so, to learn the appropriate, necessary lessons, in order to avoid making the same mistakes, repeatedly!

6. Value; values; views; visions; vital: How will you live, your life, in a way, where you align, your finest values, with being, a person, of value? Are your views, and vital, vibrant vision, beneficial, and in your immediate, and longer – term, interests?

7. Excellence; endurance: Never settle for good – enough, nor, permit, your fears, to exceed, your hopes and aspirations! Demand the utmost degree of personal excellence, and proceed, with the necessary degree of endurance, and persistence!

Consider obstacles, as challenges, to overcome, rather than as exhausting problems! It is up to you, to RESOLVE these, proactively, in order to help yourself!